"Guys Can Be D-Bags"

   So as i was hanging out with a friend today and i heard a very compelling story that pushes me to make a more thoughtful contemplative post.  The title of this article is kinda broad because while I believe that guys can be bigger dbags then girls i still believe that girls are much crazier than guys(and diabolical).  We all have our weakness. Guys tend to be more logical making them seem cold or heartless in certain situations while females are emotional and there decisions often reflect that.  Both however have different strengths that make relationships interesting and fun.  Although we are so different we mesh together so well.
      Okay now back to what inspired me to talk about this in the first place.  Today I went to some friends house to study but like so many other times we didn't get much studying done.  Our conversation covered topics like home, music, making good hot chocolate, my body, and of course the ever so popular topic of relationships.  The girls in the apartment already knew a fair bit of my relationship history so i wanted to hear theirs.  One of these girls that we will call Shaniqua told me of how she had gone almost 19 years without a first kiss, this made me feel like a man-harlot and gain a lot of respect for her at the same time.  She told me that she had dated a lot during high school but wanted to wait for someone special for her first kiss. That first kiss took place recently from a guy who had one thing on his mind; he didn't care about relationships or about really getting to know someone. He just wanted to please his carnal desires. Now i realize that we all want to please our carnal desires and kissing isn't bad its actually great! But this guy set up the date to make sure he would be able to be with her alone and get what he wanted. Selfish and sad.  I'm sure she would have preferred a more memorable first kiss after waiting so long.
     Just to clarify things a little bit more, physical affection, kissing and all that jazz is great and i thoroughly enjoy them  but do we rob them of their meaning and..specialness sometimes?(that word should be in the dictionary)
     Kind of a random thought but its been on my mind today. and this blog is turning into more of a journal for me.

  Other story of the day..... RUGBY tournament this weekend. SO PUMPED! I'll be playing wing, same as Bougey Baby.  Hopefully ill get some good playing time and crush some skulls.

Counting Sheep,
     B-Rent

  Hey i don't revise these before i post them either so , i apologize if you cant understand them..